Now that ladder league is over, I’m back to playing weekly pickleball with the fellas — and honestly, I love it.
There’s something about playing free and relaxed with friends versus competing against people you don’t know. I learned the same lesson when I played competitive cornhole: the mental game changes everything. When you’re playing strangers, it’s not just about shots — it’s about managing pressure, score awareness, expectations, and self-talk.
That’s something I’m still learning.
During the last night of ladder league, I made a conscious effort to be kinder to myself. If I made a mistake, I didn’t spiral. If I got worried about the score, I reset. And I’ve been doing better with that. The goal is simple: play my best without letting the scoreboard control my mindset.
The Paddle Dilemma
Going into rec night, I wasn’t sure which paddle to use.
My go-to has been the Bread & Butter Loco — I love it. But the higher swing weight sometimes makes it feel just a split second slower getting ready at the kitchen. That might just mean I need to stay paddle-ready at all times.
The Luzz Inferno? Incredible for flicks, slaps at the kitchen, and overheads. It feels electric in those moments.
Then there’s my trusted Vatic Pro V7 long handle — amazing balance and swing weight, especially for hands battles and quick slams near the net.
But something told me to use the Selkirk Boomstik Elongated.
Now I’ll be honest — it was hard for me to buy this paddle. Not just because of the money but because I never saw myself spending $333 on a paddle.
After last night? I get it.
Why the Boomstik Surprised Me
The Boomstik is heavy. The swing weight isn’t ideal for quick flicks. But the traits it does have fit my game extremely well.
I’m not an overly aggressive player. But if the ball sits high enough, I’m putting it away.
Drops are my go-to. I try to slow the game down and force a dink battle, especially against players who love to speed everything up.
The pop on this paddle has helped my drops tremendously. From the baseline, it just floats into the kitchen when I think it might fall short. I’ve been practicing on my Enhance Dink Master 3.0 wall at home, focusing on tracking the ball at its apex — especially for drops and dinks — and I can feel that work translating.
Am I elite at drops? No.
Am I confident? Yes.
And that’s huge.
In defensive situations, the pop actually works in my favor. When you’re in transition and just need to get the ball back over the net, the paddle does a lot of the work for you.
With less poppy paddles like the Prism Flash or even the V7, the angle has to be perfect. With this one, there’s more margin. That stability is noticeable.
There were a few pop-ups — it’s still breaking in — but overall, it impressed me.
Boom power is real.
The sweet spot and spin exceeded my expectations. I was shocked at how the ball dipped back into the court. My topspin serve felt great. Slice serve still needs work.
Overheads? If I connect clean, there’s no coming back.
But I’ve learned something important: I don’t need to swing 90% every time. Placement wins more points than power.
What I Focused on Last Night
A few intentional adjustments:
Move up to the net sooner than later as my partner is hitting his return — even if it’s slightly high. Trust my hands.
Build a consistent serve routine. Deep breath. Same location. Don’t overcomplicate it.
Stay patient in dink rallies. I remember one point where I sped up the ball when it was low when I shouldn’t have. Lesson learned.
Most of the games went to deuce. Defense was strong. It felt like a dogfight in the best way possible. I wish we had another hour before the facility closed.
One thing I was proud of: my forehand drop showed up. My backhand has always been more reliable, but the forehand felt more confident last night.
Court positioning overall felt better. I committed to moving forward and applying pressure. For context, I had TTO surgery about 2.5 years ago. Best decision I made for my knee.
Last night I didn’t even wear a brace. I’ve been focusing on strengthening, stability work, and stretching — and it’s paying off.
One thing I always tell newer players: invest in good pickleball shoes first. Stability matters. I’ve seen too many people roll ankles wearing running shoes. HOKAs might be great for running, but court movement is different.
Shoes before paddles.
Always.
Is the Boomstik Worth It?
Selkirk Sport makes high-end gear across the board — paddles, shoes, apparel. The Boomstik is legit.
But would I recommend it to everyone?
No.
If you’re playing competitive leagues and tournaments consistently and sticking to one paddle — yes, it’s worth considering.
If you’re mostly playing casual rec and rotating paddles often, there are plenty of excellent alternatives at lower price points.
For me? I’m glad I bought it.
Last night was intense, fun, back-and-forth pickleball. Long rallies. Great defense. Smart positioning. Mistakes, yes — but growth too.
And as I wait for the weather to warm up in New England, we’ll probably head outdoors in a few weeks and save some money on court fees… unless it gets too crowded and we sneak back inside.
Either way, I’ll be ready.
And for now, the Boomstik is staying in the bag.
Overall we had a great time and fun workout and cant wait for next week to meetup with the fellas.









